Take A Page From Guy Gets Girl Ebook: The Deflection Theory
Written by Chase Chandler
Monday, 23 November 2009 09:31
It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out partying for girls. Having a great conversation with a girl you are interested in is always the goal when out with the guys. Its only a matter of time before you see the girl that grabs your attention. Now you try to find the courage to talk to her and her group of friends shes with. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though.
by ChaseChandler
It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out partying for girls. Having a great conversation with a girl you are interested in is always the goal when out with the guys. Its only a matter of time before you see the girl that grabs your attention. Now you try to find the courage to talk to her and her group of friends shes with. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though.
All her friends are very receptive but the woman you were focusing on isn't giving you much attention to work with.
Don't fret. She not giving you attention because shes not attracted to you. It is because you have subconsciously and probably unintentionally boosted her ego and feeling of self-worth.
She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn't want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn't respond as some girl who's easy as Sunday Morning.
She'd rather keep her respect with her girlfriends than show her interest in you. The solution? Use what is called, the Deflection Theory! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylors Guy Gets Girl ebook.
The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that energy onto one or more of her girlfriends. By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you arent giving that attention anymore to her.
Wouldn't you rather prefer to be in this situation where girls are seeking YOUR approval instead if you trying to get THEIR approval.
This technique allows you to challenge a girl. Use this technique from Guy Gets Girl to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.
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